I have a friend that whose personality could only be called 'gay'. He's funny and witty. I celebrate my friendship with him. I don't want him to conform to some kind of 'straight' behavior. He adds a lot to the world just like he is. And there were your recent posts about Sebastian - I don't think you even mentioned a sexual orientation and it wouldn't have mattered any way - he seemed to be wild and flamboyant in the best sense of those words.

Somehow this seems a different subject to me than gay guys being nasty and treating others in ways they should have outgrown decades ago.